Day 2: Deola

Our writer today allows us peep a letter she wrote to herself this year. Enjoy 🙂

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Dear Deola,

First of all, Happy birthday! You are 23 years old now! Whoa! Your mates are married with kids now, you better get started on that baby making!

Okay, I kid, I kid.

You are probably reading this in bed, drunk off some insanely good wine and fending calls off from your numerous admirers (your mom, dad and maybe Edwin, he may not be awake Eastern Time). Well, listen up! You may be crying and sad that a year has gone by and you have nothing to show for it. But I’m here to tell you the exact opposite. So, dust those cookie crumbs off your chest, put down the wine and listen to how great 2013 was.

2013 was fantastic. I mean it. You had an amazing year and it couldn’t get any better. I mean, January came with meeting Zandile Blay, your fashion and beauty journalism professor that taught you so much about the industry and life. She may or may not be your mentor – you’re confused about that – but knowing her is going to be awesome for you. It’s basically the reason why you decided to move back home.

(more on that later)

Then you got a boyfriend. Those familiar feelings of butterflies and other creepy crawlies cluttered your tummy and your judgment. You made several bad calls with this one. I mean, niggah didn’t call you for a week! Niggah would ignore you for 7 whole days and come back with a wack ass apology and leave you angry, depressed and upped your murderous tendencies. I know you are the kind of girl to dedicate your heart and soul to a relationship, no matter how awful it is. It’s a great thing but it is horrible when the person you are dedicating yourself to doesn’t want you back. So boo, do not think you deserve dirt. I know you get lonely and sad but one day, your prince in shiny tin foil will sweep you off your feet and on to his okada.

You have a masters degree!!! That alone should be enough to get your blood pumping. You got a masters degree in journalism (online and magazine journalism) from the top school of journalism. They call your school the Harvard of journalism! So please, clap for yourself and hold that degree tight. It is the one of the great things in your arsenal you have over all those other ‘fashion journalists’ in Nigeria. You have a huge dream of being a digital director of a magazine in Nigeria. You will get that job and kick ass at it.

Let’s see … what else did I leave out?

Oh yes! You’re moving back to Nigeria. You originally dreamed of working in NYC and living in SoHo but after getting lost for 3 hours on the streets of NYC, you changed your mind. I admire your courage and strength. I mean, you are going to leave America, the land of free wifi, constant light and water and too much food to move to Nigeria where there is no starbucks. Think deeply now, do you want to live in a world with no vanilla bean frappes? You are probably crying at the thought of it right now but wipe your eyes, you will develop another addiction soon enough.

You made the decision to move back for a reason. You want to make a difference in Nigeria. It will be hard. It will be tough. But you got the chops to do it. So I trust you. As I said before, you are gonna kick ass and make a name.

Did I mention how well OmogeMuRa is doing? See, I know you never imagined a life where you writing about pretty clothes would get you anywhere but life, my dear, is full of surprises. OmogeMuRa got you recognized on the street! It got you to go to Africa Fashion Week NY and SIT FRONT ROW. You were invited to Christian Sirano’s press day! You have worked with legit brands (Wraby Parker for example) and you got to meet and talk to so many awesome people. Oh, you got nominated for a Nigerian Blog Award. How fricking awesome is that? So, stop fretting over analytics and who is not reading your blog. Look at who is reading it, who is talking about it and pay for a two-year domain package because I see OMR in your life for a very long time.

Oh and OmogeMuRa got you on TV. Do I need to say more?

You legit need to give Edwin and Michi a fricking award for being the best best friends. Edwin was there for you though the breakup, the shitty assignments and the tears you cried because you thought you were ugly and fat (you lost a lot of weight by the way, good for you). Michi on the other hand, is so beautiful and inspiring and awesome and just … amazing. She would sit on skype with you for hours, doing nothing and saying nothing. Those are the best friendships, the kind where you don’t need to fill the silence with talk. Please call her or skype with her and just thank her. Your 2013 would have been nothing without her and her adventures of mimosas, French children and girl talk.

Feel better now? Good. ‘Cause this is just 2013. 2014 promises to better. I won’t lie and say it will be all roses and butterflies but the only way you can go is up now. You will have cloudy days. You will have those days where you are so sad and angry you just want to hide and wear a color darker than black. But I promise you, it will get better. So, drink that heavenly wine that has gotten you so drunk and make 2014 the best year of your life (that was an American Authors reference by the way. They are a really awesome band)

 

Love and hugs and kisses and loubs,

Deola Adebiyi in web design class

 

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Deola has managed to remain positive in spite of so much. In my mind, she’s the classic case of “It gets darker before it gets brighter.” Keep cat walking girl 🙂

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13 thoughts on “Day 2: Deola

  1. Happy birthday girl!! pls come back quick so we can turn up!

  2. happy birthday to you. More great things for you. 😀

  3. kovieparker says:

    🙂 thoroughly enjoyed reading this.

  4. Jk_McDazzles says:

    Hey lady! I’d rather you be swept off your feet into a picanto, otherwise known by me as a keke napep pls. An okada is too dangerous.
    I think you had a great year.. And do I like your optimism?! You bet I do. 🙂

  5. Jk_McDazzles says:

    And happy birthday to you!

  6. Ebun Oluwole says:

    Happy Birthday
    God bless!

  7. Ibukun says:

    YOU GO, GIRL! *hollers and slaps knees* congratulations on the blog nomination, your degree and moving back home. Cheers to friends who make the year worth it!

  8. Clarion says:

    Happy birthday! And keep up the optimism!

  9. aramaanda says:

    I really enjoyed reading this and not just ’cause of the refreshing optimism but I actually like the style or perspective (whatever you writers call it)…in layman, I like that it’s written in the present like it was written in the future to the present…ok, I’ll just go sit in the corner…lol

    Really like though (y)

  10. Deric says:

    When are you planning to do NYSC tho..? 😀

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